A reader wrote to ask what to wear to a funeral in the Mid-West. A sad and unfortunate reality, we all find ourselves eventually in the position of figuring out what to wear to a funeral. In this time of loss, your outfit should reflect the somber mood. Although it is not mandatory to wear dark colors, it is the most appropriate for the occasion and we would strongly recommend wearing black, navy or charcoal grey. A dress, suit or pantsuit are all fine choices to wear with heels and a small purse. Black pumps work best and go with everything, but this time of year, depending on the weather, tall black boots may be more appropriate. Jewelry should be subdued as well – no dangling earrings or jangling bracelets. When it comes to proper funeral etiquette, it is customary to send flowers or a gift of food to the family is customary but not necessary. A hand-written, heartfelt note is always appropriate and appreciated. Check in the newspaper or online for the obituary, which will list times for the services as well as any organizations receiving donations in the deceased’s name.
We spent some time at J.Crew and put together this chic yet appropriate ensemble in black with subtle neutral accents. You might want to toss the pumps and clutch in the bag for a reception following the service.
