‘Tis the season of holiday parties! So many of our W2WW young friends have been asking about office party etiquette that we decided to publish our own guidelines.
DO: Dress modestly. Nothing too low-cut, too short or too tight – no matter what others are wearing. Save your sexy dress for a night out with friends.
DON’T: Show décolleté. It is distracting and sends the wrong kind of message.
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DO: Dress festively. Pick a LDB with a touch of bling. Fun sparkling earrings, a clutch with a pop of color, and embellished high heels – black patterned stockings are also a fun way to make an outfit special.
DON’T: Overdo it. This is not the occasion to wear anything too “out there” or try to steal the show with what you’re wearing.
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DO: Set up a strategy in advance. Is there someone in the company that could help advance your career? Remember this is an opportunity to socialize with some higher-ups.
DON’T: Be obviously sucking up to the bosses.
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DO: Be social. Go out of your way to mingle with some new co-workers and try to speak to everyone.
DON’T: Flirt – everyone is watching. If you are interested in a co-worker, make other opportunities outside of work to get to know each other – no making out in the corner!
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DO: Drink in moderation. Begin with water and alternate every other drink.
DON’T: Pre-drink – wait until you get to the party to start to party. And going out to bars “with the guys” afterwards is also not a great idea.
DO: Eat something. A trip to the hors d’oeuvres table is a great way to switch conversation groups.
DON’T: Eat seafood hors d’oeuvres. Nothing is worse than fishy breath.
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DO: Make it a point to thank the people who have put the party on, whether it is the head of the company, the head of your department or your co-worker who helped with the organization.
DON’T: Forget to send a hand-written note. It is always appreciated.
And last but not least. . .
DO: Have a wonderful time, and send us your own DOs and DON’Ts!
